Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Yes I need to be able to kiss... if it is not something my partner enjoys it will most likely be a deal breaker. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 I love to kiss.... anywhere and everywhere. This is not something I necessarily confirm before a visit - I'm happy to see where the chemistry takes us - but it will figure in my consideration of a repeat visit. I could even have a visit and be very satisfied even if things never progressed beyond kissing and making out on the couch, lol! After all those were me initial forays into exploration back in the day. I find kissing to be totally sensual. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Kissing, or not kissing, isn't a deal breaker for me either way. If she offers it then that is great but if she doesn't then no big issue for me. I understand it is a sensual and personal experience and not everyone is comfortable offering it within the confines of our "relationship. "That said I do prefer it to be brought up prior to our meeting as I find it a huge turn off to lean into initiate a kiss and have her turn away in an obvious state of discomfort. Like I said if you don't offer it that is fine but just be clear with me either way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 I like to kiss and I find it very off putting as SC stated. Its few and far between with guests but there are a some that for their own reasons do not partake in this wonderful activity. The first time it happened I thought, hum, do I smell bad of I wonder what is wrong? Now I accept it as a personal preference . As a SP its very awkward though as I forget sometimes and it just makes me have to remember not to do something that is very natural. ( for me) 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Love kissing...for me it's what brings the connection. 13 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Ever go to a hockey game when pucks aren't allowed ? Go deep !!! Ooops No football...sorry folks ? Ever hear the announcer yell GOALLLLLLL when there is no soccer ball ? I have never been on a date without making out a lil / allotta bit :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blue_eyes56 2010 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Love everything about it, from the soft & tender to the raw & aggressive. No kissing is a definite deal-breaker for me. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 I definitely think that kissing is a major aspect of a great loving session. It may not be a deal breaker for me if the lady is not comfortable providing it. But I find my session the most satisfied and intimate when I am with a lady who loves deep passionate kisses with tongue action and a lot of enthusiasm. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Is there anything better than the first kiss with a new partner? I think not, the anticipation, the newness and the potential are intoxicating. No need to rush into it, slowly cup a hand behind her next and start with a soft peck then slowly start to move together sort of like dancing, you lead, she leads, stop and maybe brush the hair out of her eyes and kiss her forehead, neck and shoulders. For me kissing is all about the lips a little tug on the lower lip the light tongue on the corner of her mouth. Just slow and soft. You'll know if your doing it right lol. Good kissing can become great, bad kissing is bad kissing. Deal breaker......absolutely. Peace MG 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 UNF I ADORE kissing and when someone is a good or even great kisser....it can take me just about anywhere. It's not a deal breaker for me although I do wonder and I do have to keep myself in check as it's a very natural thing for me to do. I would not want to make someone feel uncomfortable because they don't partake. I understand that it can be a very intimate act reserved for a wife or GF. Mind you it gets very difficult when there is someone you want to kiss and for whatever reason they don't. I'm not sure if frustration or need become the larger emotion. Mmmmmm think I need some kissing! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 I like kissing, but am quite accepting if the lady in question doesn't want to indulge. Every lady has her preferences that have to be respected, some in that this is a form of intimacy they reserve for their significant other. It does add to the intimacy that can grow with repeat dates. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
igab 5629 Report post Posted March 8, 2015 Yes I like to DFK whenever possible in a session. I always think it's part of the girlfriend experience and should be part of the package. The funny thing about it is that if the lady is into it, it can really make a difference to how turned on I get. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 Kissing is a deal breaker for me. If there is no kissing, then I won't be visiting. I've mentioned it is a previous thread on the same subject, but I find kissing to be a major turn on! ;) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214132 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 I need kissing and it's what I look for the most in the meeting. I miss kissing my wife if or when we make love because she is a smoker and I'm not she thinks I would mind the breath. To be honest when we first met we kissed all the time and it was great but at one point she got that phobia of kissing while making love. Back to the OP question, YES I need kissing! Kissing arouses me and can even give me the orgasm I need while making love. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amber Rose 19012 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 Kissing is so monumental and important, it's definitely a deal-breaker for me! As others have mentioned, it's so exciting, pleasurable, fun, and the anticipation leading up to a first kiss is so thrilling. Ugh, just thinking about a good make-out session is wonderful! I will almost always prefer there to be kissing during encounters. I can understand why some do not want to partake in it, and that's fine as well, but given the choice, kissing is the ultimate foreplay and definitely a sure-fire way to have a great and passionate time together. Everyone in the world should make-out more, it would make the world a better place :) Posted via Mobile Device 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 848 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 Very little more appealing than a making out with a beautiful women. The ideal situation would be that lust at first sight. I think it is highly personal action depending on the level of kiss and feel if it is not totally reciprocated then less is more. I like the idea of a kiss evolving over a few dates, first a little, then a little more, then like you mean it, that would be okay. I would find it strange to passionately kiss someone with zero attraction to you. Although I am sure I have, and enjoyed it because I likely am easy to fool, I would just rather only get one if it was something the lady would do under different circumstances, if so, well pucker up. If no kisses and no evolution of a kiss, I could see the whole situation become a little tired as most hope for some kind of connection. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 Proceed with Caution !!!! Kissing can lead to a party in the pants !!! Awwww Who am I kidding !!! For those that have met me know that I love to PARTAYYYYYY ;) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 for me kissing is very important. i love the sensuality, the intimacy and the closeness it brings. there are some sp i was very interested in seeing but when a learn there was no kissing i never booked. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
timeforchange 726 Report post Posted March 9, 2015 I had not thought of kissing (lips) the first time I visited my first sp but on the second visit, she kissed me nicely as I was leaving. This really connected for me gfe wise and has certainly been a major factor in my repeated visits. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted March 9, 2015 Kissing is essential to get the ole motor running smoothly. Can't do without it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
conquistador 18487 Report post Posted March 10, 2015 Kissing is big for me, really hard to get going without it.... Really makes for the whole experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toklat77 4616 Report post Posted March 10, 2015 It's huge for me as well! It sets the mood and ignites the passion! Without it, well, it is just not the same! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sedate 101 Report post Posted March 10, 2015 It isn't necessarily a deal breaker, but I find it adds to the date and would prefer it be included. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pierce_inverarity 202 Report post Posted March 10, 2015 Kissing isn't essential, but I really, really enjoy it. For me it always turns the switch and immediately brings me into the moment. So, a big plus, but not a deal breaker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Philander39 3705 Report post Posted March 10, 2015 I always find that my most memorable experiences of an intimate nature almost always involve a serious round of kissing before, during and after the main event. Wouldn't say it is mandatory but I find when someone is fully involved "necking" like high school kids on the couch that usually means a most excellent time will be had when events move up to the more adult side of things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
