Erotic Vocabulary

[lookingforfunxxx 615]

Well, being relatively new to this scene I have been learning a whole bunch of new acronyms (DATY, digits, MSOG, etc.).

 

There are two that I am unclear as to what the difference is between them. They are GFE and PSE - the line seems somewhat blurred. I have read a few points of view and they all differ. I would like to have some idea of what to expect (and not expect) from a service provider who advertises one of these services.

 

Any info would be welcome.

[mod 135639]

Abbreviations check here

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=abbreviations#faq_abvlist2

 

Also use the search feature as we have had LONG discussions on PSE/GFE as some people assume these include specific services (Like Kissing, cof, bbbj, etc...) that is NOT TRUE

 

This is just a "Style" of service!

 

If posting GFE (Girl friend experience) it just means she is not a quick "mechanical" lay on her back and get it over with service. It's more of a friendly "lets get to know each other and have fun" service. It is usually much more intimate (Kissing is offered by many ladies but again do not assume it is included)

 

If posting PSE (Porn Star Experience) it means she will offer a service that is more like what you see in the XXX movies. (Never means bbfs! - You should never accept bbfs from anyone who has multiple partners in this say and age as we all know). It also does not mean she will do everything and anything short of that either.

[Annessa 22743]

Abbreviations check here

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=abbreviations#faq_abvlist2

 

Also use the search feature as we have had LONG discussions on PSE/GFE as some people assume these include specific services (Like Kissing, cof, bbbj, etc...) that is NOT TRUE

 

This is just a "Style" of service!

 

If posting GFE (Girl friend experience) it just means she is not a quick "mechanical" lay on her back and get it over with service. It's more of a friendly "lets get to know each other and have fun" service. It is usually much more intimate (Kissing is offered by many ladies but again do not assume it is included)

 

If posting PSE (Porn Star Experience) it means she will offer a service that is more like what you see in the XXX movies. (Never means bbfs! - You should never accept bbfs from anyone who has multiple partners in this say and age as we all know). It also does not mean she will do everything and anything short of that either.

 

to add to what mod has said here, I will add that GFE also does not mean that our service is BBFS as many people have mentioned a blurred line between what an SP willing to give you a GFE experience is willing to do...very much to the same effect that the PSE term is misinterpreted. your girlfriend may be devoted enough to let you have sex with her without a condom...it doesn't mean that this is a service that we have to provide.

 

style over service as mod said.....

[VedaSloan 119179]

I wish I had known about CERB when I first started out.

 

Once a guy emailed asking if I did MSOG. And my first thought was, "what? msog....is he just an idiot who can't spell massage? what is the deal?"

 

Unrelated anecdotes aside, GFE/PSE are a style of service, though many will argue that each style should include specific services--not true. I would check out previous threads on the topic.