How do you walk away?

[ThisOneWorks 4707]

I know that the escorts always have the option to "walk away" when they first meet someone and they just don't think they will click....

But what happens when we as "patrons" get to the door and they open it, and it is just not at all what we were expecting?

Or they change the price for companionship and the services that had previously been discussed.

 

The escorts can "refuse service" but what happens if we don't want the service.

 

I know others have said they just pay and leave, well frankly tonight I would have been better off doing just that, after the door was opened.

(Don't ask, I won't reveal a name on these forums).

 

I would like to hear from others about this. Of course I have to admit with this new law, and the power it puts in the hands of the service provider, we as participants are seriously under pressure of the law.

 

Thoughts?

Remember NO names!

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

if the pictures are not of the person that opens the door (or the pics are 5 years ago and not what she looks like now) then you definitely have the opportunity to walk away.

To me, that is false advertising.

 

If the rate is different than agreed upon making the appointment, feel free to walk away.

 

Rates are established when making the appointment, why would they change when you get there? Different is if the girl is reducing the rate as they may not be able to offer certain parts that were agreed upon, but they should never be raised unless you ask for longer time, more services than agreed upon, along those lines.

 

 

Clients have just as much right to walk away if they feel they are being bamboozled.

[roamingguy 300292]

I know that the escorts always have the option to "walk away" when they first meet someone and they just don't think they will click....

But what happens when we as "patrons" get to the door and they open it, and it is just not at all what we were expecting?

Or they change the price for companionship and the services that had previously been discussed.

 

The escorts can "refuse service" but what happens if we don't want the service.

 

I know others have said they just pay and leave, well frankly tonight I would have been better off doing just that, after the door was opened.

(Don't ask, I won't reveal a name on these forums).

 

I would like to hear from others about this. Of course I have to admit with this new law, and the power it puts in the hands of the service provider, we as participants are seriously under pressure of the law.

 

Thoughts?

Remember NO names!

 

JMHO if you show up to a lady's place and she wasn't who you were expecting, a couple of options.

First, if the lady didn't misrepresent herself in any way, you can either go through with the date or politely decline the date, but compensate her. She did nothing wrong, and shouldn't be penalized for what is, in reality, you changing your mind at the last minute

Second, if she changes the conditions of the date at the last minute, such as a higher rate, either tell her that wasn't the agreed to rate. If she agrees with the original agreed to rate, continue on with the date. If not, I believe you are in your rights to decline the date

If she changes the conditions of the date (mind you it should be a red flag if any detailed discussions beyond time and companionship have taken place) bear in mind that it always comes with...well acronyms not allowed, but you have to be the best hygienically and otherwise speaking client. To me once you step into the door, and spend time with the lady, irrespective of what happens, she gets paid. What may or may not have happened could be due to you. Although I'm not a lawyer, all that is legally I believe is the right way to phrase it, required is time and companionship.

Nothing more

Now third, if clearly a bait and switch, a different lady is at the door, well turn around and walk away.

Personally, I view all dates with a lady I have yet to meet as the ultimate blind date. If a lady doesn't misrepresent herself, her photos (if she has them) are accurate, I don't see a reason to not go through with a date. If she doesn't show her face and you book her with the knowledge you don't know what she looks like. Then when you meet in person, it seems like a poor excuse to cancel, stating you don't like her looks. Really it is cancelling on her because of your expectations. But if she has shown true photos of herself, well it was your expectations flawed, not anything the lady did or didn't do

At the end of the day, you are dealing, business aside, with a real live human being worthy of respect. If she hasn't misrepresented herself, I see no valid reason to cancel. I would also suggest that any date you book be a shorter date for a first date

Anyhow, my two cents

 

RG

[cinelli 22184]

Fake pictures, misrepresentation and even robbery are epidemic in Winnipeg.

 

People who don't live here can't imagine how bad it is.

 

O P if you feel something is even a little bit wrong leave immediately!

[fortunateone 156618]

You won't get into any legal trouble if you choose to walk away. I'm not sure why you would even consider that to be a condition to stay where you don't want to be. I mean the law is about staying & paying, really, so not staying and not paying, seems pretty simple lol

 

 

there are a ton of 'how to walk away gracefully and politely' regardless of the reason, and roamingguy has hit every point that any client should follow. As an sp, I'd rather someone gives me a percentage of the fee and decline to stay, come up with a lame excuse if necessary, than to 'go thru with it' with both reluctance and the accompanying negative attitude.

 

if it is a fee change on arrival, then no compensation, no reason to stay, no lame or polite reason necessary. You can just say that wasn't the agreed rate, so sorry, i'm going to have to pass.

 

I know that if a client shows up and decides for any reason he's not going to pay the fee that i gave him over the phone, I show him the door. I tell him that his making the appt meant that he was agreeing to the rate that i quoted, it wasn't up to him to change it. I didn't agree to any discount in making the appt, in other words.