Bad experience, what do I do?

[MarkOttMassage 369]

Dear members,

 

I have recently visited an escort, after saving up for it, and was expecting to have a decent time. The place was horrible, her hygiene was poor, and the whole experience was extremely rushed and not smooth at all. The SP also lied about several things. There was nothing positive or even neutral about the visit.

 

Is there any way I could do something about that? Like I said, I've been saving up for it, and now I lost the money but gained absolutely nothing.

[roamingguy 300292]

That sucks, I've had a few bad experiences too

That said, Lyla is a recommendation board not a review board

So no negative reviews are allowed here

There is a forum on Lyla, a warnings section to report dangerous encounters, bait & switch etc...but it isn't to post negative reviews

Here's the link

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=17

Also Cowboy Kenny has The Cowboy's Diary http://www.cowboysdiary.info/

Tell him your experience, he may post it in his diary

But really, if just a bad date, chalk it up to experience, and move on

 

RG

[Kate von Katz 49953]

RG's right.

 

This is not the place to post a bad experience.

 

However, Cowboy's Diary is a fantastic resource in Ottawa for reporting bait&siwtch, ripoffs, etc.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

That's too bad to hear. Agree with what RG said and will add a couple more:

- you didn't mention where you found the lady but that can make a difference. I have found sticking to reputable sites and reading reviews isn't a guarantee but does help increase the chances of a good encounter. Some conversation by chat, email, phone or text can also help determine if a connection and positive experience might be there.

- and as the customer you can vote with your future choices. That doesn't give much satisfaction in the short term but from what I have heard is that many of the ladies really value good and long term customers. So the lady you met has lost that opportunity with you. But the next meeting just might bring that connection and the future lady will be grateful for your business.

 

Cub

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I sympathize for your bad date but I am curious did you find her by looking on Lyla? If you did, did you look at her recommendations?

[BootyLoving 2441]

Without the ability to post a "review" on this recommendation board, you will need to take the discussion elsewhere.

 

This is a positive experience only board.

[CristyCurves 169032]

Well he did say that "she" lied about some things, so couldn't he post a warning here?

I realize your experience was less than good and that's unfortunate because most responsible and professional companions go out of their way to leave a good impression and keep their word, so don't let one bad apple spoil the barrel:) However if money is precious to you, as you've eluded, then perhaps hobbying may not be for you. Since no one can make a guarantee to anyone that their experience will be good or great, even those of us who try very hard to please. Sometimes, even the most recommended and reviewed companions can disappoint occasionally. Leaving a few with feelings of regret.

[spud271 47779]

I would forward the information to Cowboy Kenny to post in his diary. That's probably the best way to go.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

It pisses me off EACH time I hear of stories like this, but there is always rotten apples in a basket. I truly hope this did'nt scared you off the hobby, since we are far more well reviewed ladies out here...

 

But one thing I REALLY appreciate is the calm and respectuous tone you used. No names, no details...

 

If you see somebody asking for details about this girl, you can always help by sending a PM to whom is asking, and yes the B&S section would be a way to go. CK is a very good refferal aswell, but if it was a VERY dangerous encounter, you can always ask MOD about it...

 

I would host you with great pleasure (if I was around), since you have a true gent behaviour...

 

I'm sorry this happened to you.

[Ice4fun 78407]

From my perspective when this happens unless it was a blatant B&S or there was a dangerous situation or illegal activities ie. money stolen etc then you need to just chalk this up to one of the risks of the hobby and move along.

 

I understand that when things like this happen we hate to feel like someone has taken advantage of us but the reality is there is not that much you can actually do about it. On CERB / Lyla we restrict ourselves with good reasons to an environment that focuses on the positive so with few exceptions this is not a place to air dirty laundry...

 

I think someone suggested that there are other sites where if you were so inclined you could go and freely air your dirty laundry but I would suggest to you that if that is your plan then keep in mind that the reality is that this becomes a "he said" "she said" and those discussions often don't come out positive for either side ... the end result might just be that other ladies who you may want to see may choose to not see you as they don't want to risk a similar situation in their future.

 

The bottom line is there are risks associated with participation by both clients and ladies... ladies see bad client who treat them bad or short pay just like clients see ladies who might act inappropriate.... both need to move on.

 

I am a big believer in Karma... whether it is a client or a lady that acts inappropriately it will ultimately come back to them as our actions represent us in the world and try as we may most people will in the end actually see us for who we really are.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[Peachka 4334]

CK's site is for B & S\ ripoffs \ dangerous encounters. Bad service\hygiene etc does not usually make it into the diary.

 

To the OP, in the future, do as much research as possible & solicit opinions (via pm) from members whom have seen the provider you are interested in.

[MarkOttMassage 369]

First of all, I'd like to thank everyone who contributed. I've gotten lots of replies in my mailbox as well! I will be more careful, reading reviews and looking up providers. I always check CK, but this provider was not there. I have contacted CK, and I hope that this would help other clients in the future..

 

Like miss Grass_Hopper pointed out, I refrained from naming anyone or giving specifics. I am not trying to report that service provider (not on lyla at least). I was just seeking advice as I am not very experienced in this hobby..

 

Thanks again everyone! Lesson learned.