Sexy Real Estate Agent in Ottawa?

[fadi1716 247]

Anyone know of a sexy real estate female agent in Ottawa? Would like to go house shopping, nothing beats having a sexy real estate female agent!

[CristyCurves 169032]

I'm sure there are many but shouldn't you be more concerned about their credentials rather than their sex appeal? After all, buying a house is a serious transaction and I know many agents and none of them would like their time wasted:)

[fadi1716 247]

Thank you for replying cristy,

 

I am not looking to anyone's time. I don't really need their credentials because I've bought several homes in my life and know to look for.

 

I do appreciate her sex appeal much more and at the of the day she would be making about 2.5%on my purchase

[Amber Rose 19012]

So then why don't you just do your real estate business yourself and then hire an escort instead for the sexual aspect? Because it sounds like you have no use for one and you would be wasting their time.

 

I'm pretty sure a large majority of female real estate agents will absolutely not appreciate you only hiring them based on their looks and sexualizing them throughout the process.

 

Like what is the point of this? Is it a fantasy you have? Then a companion would be much better suited for this, because I don't think a real estate agent will want to be a part of it without knowing.

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[Ice4fun 78407]

Thank you for replying cristy,

 

I am not looking to anyone's time. I don't really need their credentials because I've bought several homes in my life and know to look for.

 

I do appreciate her sex appeal much more and at the of the day she would be making about 2.5%on my purchase

 

I ignored your first post but in my opinion your request is very unfortunate as it unnecessarily views women as only a sexual object there for your viewing pleasure... you even go so far as to say that you don't need her for her "credentials" but that's ok because she will get a good commission WOW...

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

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[roamingguy 300292]

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Love you derailing this trainwreck of a thread my dear (virtual) Wifey

 

 

Umm what do you think the chances are for the Toronto Maple Leafs next year LOL

 

RG

[fadi1716 247]

wooohaa...

 

I am not too sure what the big deal is here? I would like to purchase a house and am looking for a sexy real estate agent to help me find one. I know there are lots of homes for sale and why not use the services of a sexy lady? In regards to me sexualizing her...no, not at all. Perhaps enjoying her beauty and smarts...definitely. In fact, I have gone that route before and actually took her out on a nice date, until this day we remain friends.

 

Being friends with a real estate agent brings ALOT of benefits, like insider secrets.

 

Maybe I could have worded my initial question differently but honestly dont see anything wrong from asking to be served by a sexy lady. So if anyone does know of a beautiful real estate female agent, please do pm with the information.

 

no offence directed towards anyone

[CristyCurves 169032]

Love you derailing this trainwreck of a thread my dear (virtual) Wifey

 

 

Umm what do you think the chances are for the Toronto Maple Leafs next year LOL

 

RG

 

whether or not we like a thread topic or not is personal opinion and can be politely stated as per the rules, but "derailing" as you call it, is actually hijacking. Which is, I thought, frowned upon and against the rules. It shouldn't be encouraged just because you like the hijacker and dislike the thread. Rules are rules, aren't they?

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Unlike some of us here on Lyla, I think that fadi1716 question is a fair one. What is wrong with trying to find a sexy lady to sell you a house? He has done it before, it could be a fantasy of his, nothing wrong with that, am I right?

We live in a society were sex sells and he probably wants to test the water sort of speak.

 

Sorry fadi1716, I'm not from Ottawa and don't know of any sexy real estate agents but if I would I would let you know.

 

Hope you find what you are looking for !

[Ice4fun 78407]

Unlike some of us here on Lyla, I think that fadi1716 question is a fair one. What is wrong with trying to find a sexy lady to sell you a house? He has done it before, it could be a fantasy of his, nothing wrong with that, am I right?

We live in a society were sex sells and he probably wants to test the water sort of speak.

 

Sorry fadi1716, I'm not from Ottawa and don't know of any sexy real estate agents but if I would I would let you know.

 

Hope you find what you are looking for !

 

Just to be clear the OP has the right to choose his real estate agent based on any criteria he wishes...

 

What I find offensive is his statement that their professional credentials did not matter... well if that's how he feels I hope he will be as honest when he approaches the agent in telling the lady that he is only choosing her to be his eye candy so that she is given the right to choose if she wishes to be sexually objectified in her workplace.... if she agrees wonderful.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[CristyCurves 169032]

Thank you for replying cristy,

 

I am not looking to anyone's time. I don't really need their credentials because I've bought several homes in my life and know to look for.

 

I do appreciate her sex appeal much more and at the of the day she would be making about 2.5%on my purchase

 

You are welcome and perhaps I shouldn't have responded since I don't know any in your area. But I did take the course my self and have gotten to know many agents in the Maritimes and felt your question a little off putting. Sure, there is nothing wrong with appreciating someone's sex appeal, nor your post/question but, anyone I know in the business of selling homes wouldn't want that to be the reason for them being hired. They take their work seriously, as would I and they'd want to earn their commission from their work/intelligence not from batting their eyeleashes. Some do care how and where their income comes from. But there is someone and something for everyone, good luck in your search.

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

This thread raises a lot of concerns for me...Us ladies have screening methods and blacklist database to avoid time wasters and sexual predators...What about the female real estate agents? They are also found in a situation where they are alone with a man.

 

Personally, if I was a real estate agent, I would be afraid to be alone in a empty house with a man who chose my services because of my look. Sounds like a case of sexual harassment.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Anyone know of a sexy real estate female agent in Ottawa? Would like to go house shopping, nothing beats having a sexy real estate female agent!

 

What next? An erotic hairdresser? Oh wait, you already asked that:

 

Quote: Thread: erotic hairdresser?

 

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fadi1716 

 

 

 erotic hairdresser?

 

Hello,

 

Does anyone know of an erotic hairdresser in Ottawa? Quote

 

OK, once you find your house are you going to ask for a sexy lawyer?

 

I know a great real estate agent in Ottawa who is drop dead gorgeous. She could make a ton of money in this business, but has no interest. She would especially not want a real estate client who wants to objectify her sexually. She does very well selling houses.

     

 

  

[Eric Northman 16522]

Not wanting to pile on OP too much but I think he might have misread his audience a bit. Not sure if it's surprising or not but there is definitely a fairly strong feminist bent among the ladies here. I don't mean that in a negative way. It just seems that many of the women here have put a great deal of thought into gender roles, sexuality and women's place in society. Their views on this sort of thing are very nuanced and I find it quite delightful to read some of the thoughtful responses in these threads.

 

Just because they are choosing to make a living in a field that tends to objectify women doesn't mean they approve of GENERALIZED objectification of women. They are taking advantage of a particular aspect of our society but doing so by choice. That's the difference. It's patronizing to choose to employ a skilled individual for superficial reasons other than their qualifications. This is right at the heart of women's battle for equality and respect.

[Guest D***el B***e]

This thread raises a lot of concerns for me...Us ladies have screening methods and blacklist database to avoid time wasters and sexual predators...What about the female real estate agents? They are also found in a situation where they are alone with a man.

 

Personally, if I was a real estate agent, I would be afraid to be alone in a empty house with a man who chose my services because of my look. Sounds like a case of sexual harassment.

 

Come on now, this is a vey, very unfair comment. Although I may disagree with the entire reasoning of this thread, to go and call it a case of sexual harassment is beyond comprehension. Can you explain exactly where and how you see this is as a case of sexual harassment? And please base your response on the OP's posts, not how you're being influenced by other posters.

[Eric Northman 16522]

Come on now, this is a vey, very unfair comment. Although I may disagree with the entire reasoning of this thread, to go and call it a case of sexual harassment is beyond comprehension. Can you explain exactly where and how you see this is as a case of sexual harassment? And please base your response on the OP's posts, not how you're being influenced by other posters.

 

I agree that the mere act of hiring someone for their looks does not constitute harassment in of itself. It is definitely a precursor however and I can understand the reasoning.

 

Let's follow the logic. Can we agree that contracting a real estate agent is, to some extent, similar to hiring an employee?

 

Can we then imagine that OP has hired an employee based on their looks rather than on the job description or the person's qualifications?

 

None of this is harassment. Yet.

 

However OP admits that he's done it before and that it resulted in going on a date. This implies that there is an ulterior motive and a goal of establishing a relationship beyond the professional. In the previous case, apparently it went well. But what if the attraction was not reciprocated? Are we not then setting up a situation in which he will be in a position of power over someone who is trying to make a living but being exposed to unwanted sexual advances?

 

Does that not meet the definition of harassment?

[waterrat 1261]

What next? An erotic hairdresser? Oh wait, you already asked that:

 

OK, once you find your house are you going to ask for a sexy lawyer?

 

  

 

Sexy lawyer??? More likely to find a sexy unicorn :)

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

Come on now, this is a vey, very unfair comment. Although I may disagree with the entire reasoning of this thread, to go and call it a case of sexual harassment is beyond comprehension. Can you explain exactly where and how you see this is as a case of sexual harassment? And please base your response on the OP's posts, not how you're being influenced by other posters.

 

Maybe it is because you have been sitting on your male privilege for too long. It is beyond my comprehension that you can't imagine how a man who comes on an adult forum to ask for a sexy real estate agent could not eventually escalate to a situation of sexual harassment. Are you capable - just one second - to put yourself in this woman's situation?

 

Let's make an exercise:

 

Imagine that you, a male real estate agent, work hard everyday to build a reputation and credibility. Now on some random male adult fun forums, a guy is asking for a sexy male real estate agent; then your name pops up.

 

Imagine receiving those male clients, are just as interested in your selling pitch as they are at looking at your crotch. Are you cool with that? Imagine those guys are twice your size. You have to stay professional, because they could hurt your business if you hurt their ego. You are forced to courtesy laugh at their shitty and flirty jokes.

 

Better: how about it's the name of your daughter being mentioned on this forum?

 

Hiring a real estate agent based on her sexiness = thinking with your dick. Thinking with you dick = bad decisions.

[Guest D***el B***e]

I agree that the mere act of hiring someone for their looks does not constitute harassment in of itself. It is definitely a precursor however and I can understand the reasoning.

 

Let's follow the logic. Can we agree that contracting a real estate agent is, to some extent, similar to hiring an employee?

 

Can we then imagine that OP has hired an employee based on their looks rather than on the job description or the person's qualifications?

 

None of this is harassment. Yet.

 

However OP admits that he's done it before and that it resulted in going on a date. This implies that there is an ulterior motive and a goal of establishing a relationship beyond the professional. In the previous case, apparently it went well. But what if the attraction was not reciprocated? Are we not then setting up a situation in which he will be in a position of power over someone who is trying to make a living but being exposed to unwanted sexual advances?

 

Does that not meet the definition of harassment?

 

 

You are merely describing, and implying, and assuming all kinds of possibilities here! You are describing what could be construed as harassment because you want to go there and prove a point. You are turning the situation around by describing ways into which it could become harassment but the way the situation is being described, it is NOT harassment. Your post is full of WHAT IFs. You are turning this situation into a completely different story. "A position of power" ... come on now, where does THAT come from? And, so what if he went on a date? what's wrong with that?

[Ice4fun 78407]

Come on now, this is a vey, very unfair comment. Although I may disagree with the entire reasoning of this thread, to go and call it a case of sexual harassment is beyond comprehension. Can you explain exactly where and how you see this is as a case of sexual harassment? And please base your response on the OP's posts, not how you're being influenced by other posters.

 

OP's second post in this thread reads as follows:

 

Thank you for replying cristy,

 

I am not looking to anyone's time. I don't really need their credentials because I've bought several homes in my life and know to look for.

 

I do appreciate her sex appeal much more and at the of the day she would be making about 2.5%on my purchase

 

Harassment - the Legal Definition from the Webster's New World Law Dictionary is:

 

"Unjustifiable conduct, typically persistent and repetitive, aimed at an individual, that causes distress or discomfort."

 

In my opinion it would not be a stretch to consider someone being approached in their professional work role / environment solely for the voyeuristic sexual viewing pleasure of the client and not in relations to their professional role (ie real estate agent, lawyer, banker etc) to be seen as unwelcome by the individual and to cause them distress or discomfort especially if they are not aware from the outset that this activity will be undertaken by the gentleman for his sexual pleasure. I think unless the lady is aware of the arrangement this type of behavior regardless of the potential for a commission is unjustifiable conduct in a professional environment.

 

But that might just be my warped view of the world lol... if both parties are fully aware of the arrangement from the outset and agree then by all means have at it.

 

Great discussion by the way.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[Eric Northman 16522]

You are merely describing, and implying, and assuming all kinds of possibilities here! You are describing what could be construed as harassment because you want to go there and prove a point. You are turning the situation around by describing ways into which it could become harassment but the way the situation is being described, it is NOT harassment. Your post is full of WHAT IFs. You are turning this situation into a completely different story. "A position of power" ... come on now, where does THAT come from? And, so what if he went on a date? what's wrong with that?

 

I think Genevieve answered this point quite well already but I reiterate. Is it REALLY that much of a stretch to see how this will progress? And yes, absolutely a position of power. He is a client which means she is under pressure to keep him happy or else she doesn't get paid. How much inappropriate behavior will she put up with before deciding it's not worth it?

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

wooohaa...

 

I am not too sure what the big deal is here? I would like to purchase a house and am looking for a sexy real estate agent to help me find one. I know there are lots of homes for sale and why not use the services of a sexy lady? In regards to me sexualizing her...no, not at all. Perhaps enjoying her beauty and smarts...definitely. In fact, I have gone that route before and actually took her out on a nice date, until this day we remain friends.

 

Enjoying her beauty but not sexualizing her!

Enjoying her beauty and 'smart'! How do you even know she is smart! Remember, credentials don't matter!

Gone that route before AND took her on a date! And still not going to sexualize her!

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

"A position of power" ... come on now, where does THAT come from? And, so what if he went on a date? what's wrong with that?

It IS absolutely a position of power!

He is the client and she is the hired independent contractor/agent/employee for a specific agreed upon amount of time.

 

I'll give you a concrete example. Read below.

 

Imagine that you, a male real estate agent, work hard everyday to build a reputation and credibility. Now on some random male adult fun forums, a guy is asking for a sexy male real estate agent; then your name pops up.

 

Imagine receiving those male clients, are just as interested in your selling pitch as they are at looking at your crotch. Are you cool with that? Imagine those guys are twice your size. You have to stay professional, because they could hurt your business if you hurt their ego. You are forced to courtesy laugh at their shitty and flirty jokes.

 

Hiring a real estate agent based on her sexiness = thinking with your dick. Thinking with you dick = bad decisions.

 

I've been in this situation once and I'll never forget it.

 

I had been hired for an 8 month contract at a prominent company in my field of expertise. I was stoked because the job was awesome and better yet, it was going to look amazing on my resume. It was a great opportunity that would open many doors...

 

Let's just say that I never made it to the end of my contract and put in my resignation within 5 months (said I accepted a full-time job elsewhere) because of the behavior of my boss, which I had to work closely with.

 

Since I didn't want to lose my job at the time, therefore my $ income $, and I wanted the experience and the reference, I put up with a lot of BS from him: from him making friendly advances and then saying he was just joking, from him constantly asking me out to late dinners (saying it would be strictly about business), from him always trying to have any kind of physical contact with him (rubbing my shoulders, holding my hand when he was talking to me, asking for a kiss on the cheek before I left, etc.) and the list goes on and on and on...

 

I managed to leave that job with an outstanding reference but the overall experience made me feel cheap and totally disrespected. It felt like I was there for his personal entertainment. As a professional in my field, it was not the experience I was looking for nor should any employee have to deal with this BS, male or female.