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How worried are people about catching herpes from receiving oral sex, even when using condoms. Anyone have any thoughts or stats? If the mouth were to touch an area not covered by the condom or saliva dribbles down it to an uncovered area, I understand there's a risk.

 

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Everyone is different.

 

I spoke to a sexual health nurse and asked the same question about giving oral without protection. No matter what there's always going to be risks involved but getting anything from unprotected oral is low. However, it's higher if a man and man were to have intercourse and contracted something, then chances can be higher for HIV or herpes. From my understanding, and please correct me if I am wrong. It's easier to contract something with unprotected sex than unprotected oral sex.

 

No matter there is still a risk for getting something no matter how safe someone can be.

 

This might be of help, I know it is back dated but it has stats, not recent.

 

Something more recent but still back dated, go here.

 

Here is a few others where you can find more information, some of it is updated.

 

That is why it's important to get regular check ups, not just us the escorts, but the men who also see the escorts. It only protects everyone. Better to know than not know and give something to someone.

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oral to genital transmission of herpes is pretty common - up to 50% of new genital herpes infections are type 1, which is typically known as oral herpes.

 

oral infections of type 2 herpes is quite rare without genital infection of type 2, in the limited research that's been done on this.

 

The risk of transmission per sex act is quite low when infected parties are asymptomatic, so I wouldn't be overly concerned about transmission, but I would personally opt to use barriers for oral sex for this among many reasons.

 

Most people who have herpes are asymptomatic, and asymptomatic testing for herpes is not recommended (and not very useful), so many, if not most, people who are infected don't know. However, herpes can be transmitted asymptomatically.

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I have often wondered this myself. I always ask for safe oral sex. Am I just paranoid?

 

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I just asked my doctor a question about this today.

 

She said they tell people who have herpes not to be sexual or have sexual contact if they have an outbreak (very obvious to sexual partner) or when they are having burning, tingling (not obvious to sexual partner) and something else that is associated with herpes when they are going to break out. (I can't remember what the third sign was)

 

I asked her about viral shedding (as I have heard other people talk about it) and she said that is VERY rare but it is when a person who has herpes can spread the virus without having any signs at all. But she emphasized it is VERY RARE. And again she said they just tell people who have the virus to watch for the burning etc and, of course, the actual outbreaks, and refrain from sexual activities during that time.

 

Also (from my own research) condoms will NOT protect you from herpes as the herpes outbreak is usually outside the area covered by condoms. That is why you and your partner should feel comfortable 'checking' each other out.

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